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In this day and age, the youth often forget to appreciate the fine art of crafting. A generation or two ago, they can easily identify with making something out of nothing. But the youth of today are enamored by the shinier, and newer video games. Now, at the mention of this, many of my fellow parents would try to solve this by denying them what they want. I do not think this will be a good idea, however, and I implore you against doing so.

You see, it is common knowledge to our generation that crafts are a more productive use for their time. But the fact of the matter is, denying them what they want will only antagonize you in their eyes. Instead of denying them their time with video games, try to at least understand what it is they find enjoyable about them. You may be surprised at how receptive they will be of your company. And as you get closer to them, you may then slowly introduce them into crafts.

It is important for you to explain things to them. Let them know that playing video games is a privilege, and with it comes your own privilege of getting to spend time with them. This is all you ever wanted; to see the sunset with them as you finish carving that statuette, to see them just for an hour in a week, to find them smiling as they pursue the challenges of life.

Remember; do not force them to spend too much time with you. As teenagers, they would rather be with friends. Be okay with that (but do be in constant contact with their friends' parents as well); what's important at this point in their lives is that there should be time left with you. Do not force this into their minds; let the idea develop on its own with your prodding.

All children would return to their roots as they get older; if they remember you as the parent who understood their wants, they will share them with you. In turn, you can guide them to making the right decisions well into your adult life.